tight shoe saturday night

well it was really a friday night, but i have so much on my mind i have to sit and type a bit. the phrase "thight-shoe saturday night" was something an old uncle said to me years and years ago. he said when he was young in the thirtys he only had one pair of nice shoes he wouldn't wear them unless it was a special ocassion or church. So those shoes were tight and when you took your gal on the town it would be a tight-shoe saturday night. thats how you knew someone was out to impress.
so my friday night was spent with my guy and his daughter and my mom and dad! haha seems weird but actually i was sad when they all left to go home. My guy is sick right now and i wish he could stay here so i could take care of him but untill his daughter is comfortable with me and staying here its better they go back to where he is living. they are such a big part of my life its very cool but suprising. i never expected it to be so comfortable. it looks like we will be moving the "move in" date closer because we both feel having the kids have a room to share is much better than all three of them sharing a guest room at his mom's house. it also looks like we will need to provide a stable and calm environment for his daughter. there is drama on the high seas, and i am actually sad that his ex has been as stupid as i thought she would be. its so foreign to me ... she has no concern for where she and her daughter will be living in a week but she finds the time to go to the bars all weekend. its not important to her to look for a job but she will find the time to go out to and drink with her friends to "forget" i am guessing.
it honestly used to just make me mad because i could see how he had been and still was being taken advantage of, but now that i have been spending time with his daughter its breaking my heart and as i sit an type this i have tears streaming down my face because i am so sad for this little girl. i don't think her mother intends to get evicted, she just decided not to be resoponsible when it mattered.
i just don't understand, nor will i

i want to type more but i have to hike a mountain tomorrow, wish me luck on the "climb for a cure".